We Are Driven: The Compulsive Behaviors America Applauds - Understanding Modern Motivations & Cultural Trends | Perfect for Psychology Enthusiasts & Social Researchers" （注：原书名为中文翻译版标题，现优化为英文SEO标题，补充了内容说明和使用场景）

I think this book is an excellent start to dealing with 'positive' behaviors that are harming those around us. It is written by Christians from a godly perspective but is useful for anyone. Yes, we are all driven to some extent, but it's when those habits/compulsions are destroying our families/relationships that they are no longer positive. And they are rooted in 'proving' that we're good enough because somewhere along the line, we were convinced that we never could be good enough. In spite of what some people think, most people will not change without some type of support group/accountability. Twelve step programs are not the only or final answer but they can be a very useful step in the right direction. It has made a huge difference in my life and my happiness. I can finally respond to God's love without having to prove that 'I'm good enough.'